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Crying baby: when the crying won’t stop
For anyone looking after a baby who will not stop crying: a parent, a partner, a grandparent, a sitter, at any hour. This page passes on, by name, what the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD) and the National Library of Medicine say: what the crying may mean and what to check, colic and when it ends, things to try, what to do when you reach your limit, why a baby must never be shaken, when to call the doctor, and safe sleep when you are this tired. It builds the questions to ask at a visit. Take only what you need tonight.
Right now
- About to lose your temper, or afraid you might shake or hurt the baby? Put the baby down and step away. The CDC says to put the baby in a safe place and walk away to calm down, and to continue to check on the baby every five to 10 minutes. It says to consider calling a friend, relative, neighbor, parent helpline, or your child’s healthcare provider for support.
- Never shake a baby. The CDC says: do not shake your baby, ever. It says babies have very weak neck muscles that cannot yet support their heads, and that if you shake your baby, you can damage their brain or even cause their death.
- A baby who is not breathing, cannot be woken, is limp, or has been shaken or hurt? Call 911. This line is ours: none of the pages we pass on names 911.
- Worried that your baby is sick? The National Library of Medicine says: trust your intuition; if you are worried about your baby, call your health care provider right away. The CDC says: if the baby won’t stop crying, check for signs of illness, and call the doctor if you think the child is sick.
- Overwhelmed, or having thoughts of harming your baby or yourself? Call or text 988 at any time. The CDC gives the National Maternal Mental Health Hotline, 1-833-852-6262, by call or text, 24 hours a day.
If you cannot reach a provider and you are frightened for your baby, go to an emergency room or call 911. That line is ours, and so is the 988 line. This page is not for emergencies.
Changed on October 10, 2026. This box first gave lines from encyclopedia articles we should not have used, among them a list of signs for calling a provider. They are out; what is here now is the CDC’s or the National Library of Medicine’s, or marked ours. The note at the bottom of the page says what changed.
More help
- If your mood is low, or the thoughts scare you: Postpartum depression.
- For the minutes after you put the baby down: Breathe and ground and When anger takes over.
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- If you are worried someone is hurting a child: If a child is being hurt.
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This page and its wording were written with AI (Claude) for Scarlet Beast (our AI policy). No doctor, nurse or child-care expert has reviewed it. Changed on October 10, 2026. When this guide was published on October 9, most of it passed on four articles of a medical encyclopedia that is licensed text; its publisher’s notice does not allow that reuse, including by AI. We had decided not to use such articles and then did. That was our mistake. Every line from them is out. What the page passes on now, read on October 9 and 10, 2026. Five pages of the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC): About Abusive Head Trauma (reviewed May 16, 2024; English only), Positive Parenting Tips: Infants (reviewed February 20, 2026; read in English and Spanish), Milestones by 2 Months (reviewed May 16, 2026; read in English and Spanish), Signs Your Child Is Hungry or Full (reviewed March 11, 2026; English only) and Providing Care for Babies to Sleep Safely (reviewed September 17, 2024; English only). Two pages of the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD), each read in English and Spanish: the Colic section of What are some of the basics of infant health? (last reviewed September 7, 2021, so it is not new) and Safe to Sleep: Ways to Reduce Baby’s Risk. And the Summary, only the Summary, of the National Library of Medicine’s health topic page Common Infant and Newborn Problems, read in English and Spanish. The page says whose words it is passing on, and what is marked “ours” is our own, including every line that names 911: none of these pages names it. What is gone because no page we may pass on says it: how many hours a day babies usually cry, and a number of hours that would mean colic; a list of reasons a baby cries; the steps for going over a baby’s body, clothing and diaper; a week-by-week course of colic (NICHD gives when it usually starts and when it will likely improve); how long a bottle feeding should take, and foods to stop while breastfeeding; a longer list of things to try; how short a shaking can injure, what it does inside the skull, a list of signs in a shaken baby, and first-aid steps; the lists of signs for contacting a provider at once, with their time limits; and, for sleep, a line on covering a baby, a number of weeks before a pacifier, and a flat rule about sharing a bed. For those, ask your baby’s provider; a missing list is not reassurance, and if something frightens you, call. What we left out or did not read: every medicine and every kind of drops; every figure on how many babies die (they are on the CDC’s and NICHD’s pages); the other sections of NICHD’s infant health page; the parts of the CDC’s parenting and milestone pages that are not about crying, feeding or safety; the pages the National Library of Medicine’s topic page links to; any temperature that counts as a fever (our fever guide has what the federal pages say); the steps of infant CPR; the Period of PURPLE Crying program the CDC links to; what the sleep pages say about vaccines, prenatal care, alcohol and drugs; the National Maternal Mental Health Hotline’s own pages (what we say about it is what the CDC’s page says); and Childhelp’s own pages (they were read for our child abuse guide; giving its number here is ours). We called no number. It saves nothing and loads no tracking.